Friday, April 30, 2010

Step Out of the Story, Open the Door to Inner Guidance

The other week I was out hiking some spectacularly beautiful trails that traveled up and down verdant hills speckled with wildflowers. It was hot and I kept stopping on the uphill stretches to rest. It seemed like I was out of shape, I got tired more easily than I normally would. This gorgeous hike was starting to feel like a chore. I noticed that I was pushing myself physically to get up the hills.

Then I stepped out of my mental story of “Oh, it’s so hot. What’s wrong with me? This trail is longer than I thought,” to receive a sudden realization that if I got totally present and accepting of the pace my body really wanted to go at in this moment, then I would be experiencing ease, which is how I want to live my life anyway. So I started taking very small steps on the hills, and used the time to breathe and appreciate. I approached one particularly daunting slope and was amazed that this time, even after having hiked five miles, I made it to the top with ease and without stopping.

You may have heard it said that the world is a hologram, which means, on a personal level, how you approach one area of your life affects all the other areas of your life. Our thoughts are powerful creators. Once you get into a groove of not liking something, however justified you feel that is, your experience gets significantly harder. Slow down to find a way to be with what is, appreciate what you can appreciate, and the peace you find will nourish your soul.

We’ve been exploring the power of stepping out of your story in my Clarity, Inner Freedom and Next Steps class. Once you step out of your story and become intentional, you activate your inner guidance, which just loves to help you achieve your dreams and live with greater happiness and fulfillment.

© 2010 Nicola Walker, Clarity for Life

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